tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7974275444656417202024-02-19T07:33:37.038-08:00Women of Inspiration & SoulAngelique Jurdhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07228113088852810648noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-22250439431993446512012-04-21T01:01:00.002-07:002012-04-21T01:02:47.468-07:00Erica James - a true English lady<br />
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About six months ago I got the opportunity to interview English novelist,
<a href="http://ericajames.co.uk/" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank">Erica James</a> . She was, if I may behave like a fan-girl for a moment, Very Cool. I originally published the interview over on <i><a href="http://justheardreadseen.com/" target="_blank">Just Heard, Just Read, Just Seen</a></i>; but since I found her so inspirational I think she deserves a spot in <i>Women of Inspiration and Soul</i>.</div>
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The very first thing I noticed about her was how tiny she is. Now I’m under five foot and I”m hardly a heavy weight, but I felt like a giant next to the petite writer from England.</div>
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The second thing I noticed about her is far more important. Erica James is, in a word, delightful. Delightful is not a word I use a lot – I suspect I am the wrong generation for it – but it is the only word to describe this lady (and I mean that in the royal sense – for while she may not be one in title, she certainly is one in bearing).</div>
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Within minutes of sitting down and picking up her cup of tea, Ms James was laughing and chatting – and of all things asking me questions. The realisation that interviewer and interviewee had inadvertently swapped places brought another wave of laughter from both of us and I was struck by how surreal it is. After all ,<a href="http://ericajames.co.uk/" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank">Erica James has written more than a dozen best selling novels</a>, been a <a href="http://www.thesundaytimes.co.uk/sto/?CMP=KNGvccp1-sunday+times" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank">Sunday Times </a>Top Ten Best Seller and has won the <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2006/apr/20/romanticnoveloftheyear" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank">Romantic Novel of the Year Award</a>.</div>
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And yet there we were, in <a href="http://auckland.langhamhotels.co.nz/index.html?semid=Brand-TLAKL" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank">The Langham</a>, giggling over….well nothing really. I think the subject of men and relationships might have come up and the next thing we were behaving like school girls.</div>
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“It’s funny,” she told me, ” I never thought I’d be in this position. I started writing in my early thirties because I was unhappy, but I didn’t realise it. When I was writing I wasn’t thinking about the things that were making me unhappy. When I was writing I was in a happier place.”</div>
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<i>A Breath of Fresh Air,</i> she said, was semi-autobiographical in the sense that she drew on where she was in her life at the time – emotionally and geographically.</div>
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“But it wasn’t really about writing about me – I just wanted to write about a nice place and I wanted to make this woman, the heroine, happy.”</div>
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She sipped her tea and thought a moment.</div>
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“I think I’m a romantic at heart. I really do still believe in love. I can see genuine happiness in certain relationships.”</div>
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This talent for looking at situations that are perhaps not the happiest and using them as the basis for a novel has stayed with the author. In 2004 she was caught in the Boxing Day tsunami in Bali – and knew she wanted to write about it.</div>
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“I just didn’t want to write about me and my experience or even the experience of the tsunami itself.”</div>
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The result was best selling novel <em style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Its-the-Little-Things/dp/B002OFDGM8/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&qid=1321868120&sr=8-9" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank">“It’s the Little Things” </a></em>about a couple, who along with their friend, having survived the tsunami, are now struggling with the challenges of day to day living.</div>
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“I think that’s human nature,” Erica says, ” we can cope with the big disasters but its the little things that will drive us to homicide.”</div>
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One of her more recent novels,<em style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Real-Katie-Lavender-Erica-James/dp/1409130827/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1321868186&sr=8-4" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank"> The Real Katie Lavender</a></em>, was inspired by the current increase in public interest in geneology.</div>
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” People are fascinated with where they come from aren’t they? I love looking back at a character’s childhood but I don’t care where my own great uncles came from or what they did.”</div>
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The heroine of <em style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;">The Real Katie Lavender</em> discovers a year after her mother dies, that the man she thought was her father wasn’t. She sets off to find her biological father simply to satisfy her curiosity and to answer the question that has bothered her since she has made the discovery: who is she really? The novel is a lovely, gentle read that passes no judgement and comes to a satisfying and, oddly, realistic conclusion. I say oddly because romance by definition, even great romance (sometimes especially great romance) tends to wave the flag for the unrealistic ending.</div>
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By the time we had finished our tea I was painfully aware the lovely Ruby from <a href="http://http//www.hachette.co.nz/" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;" target="_blank">Hachette</a> was going to drag Erica away. Ignoring my cup I asked her about process. Does she plot or is she a pantser (a writer who, essentially, writes by the seat of their pants)? Where does she get her ideas? What about endings?</div>
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The first question was met with a giggle. A somewhat naughty giggle I might add as she leaned forward.</div>
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“I don’t have a synopsis, I make it up as I go along.”</div>
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As a pantser myself I was relieved to learn this and told her so. She seemed genuinely interested and pleased. I guess even the best need reassurance from time to time ...</div>
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As for her ideas, she is a self described magpie.</div>
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“I collect stories all the time. I listen and I watch and I collect them then I write stories about everyday issues that concern men and women.”</div>
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Ruby poked her head around the corner – we really did need to wrap up she said, there was another interviewer waiting. We promised we were nearly done.</div>
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“What about happy endings?” I asked.</div>
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“Oh a happy ending is very important but it needs to be satisfying too and drawn together. It has to create order out of chaos.”</div>
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Before I left Erica asked Ruby to take a photo of us together and I was slightly taken aback as I don’t really do photos as a rule.</div>
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“Oh it’s for me, a momento.”</div>
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I agreed, the photo was snapped, we shook hands and I headed back into my day.</div>
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Carrying with me a little flicker of romance passed on by a beautiful lady with a tinkling laugh and a wonderful way with words.</div>
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<a href="http://angeliquejurd.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/JVH3-214x300.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://angeliquejurd.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/JVH3-214x300.jpg" width="142" /></a>Romance writer, <a href="http://www.sandrahyatt.com/" style="color: darkgreen;" target="_blank">Sandra Hyatt</a> loved happy endings and believed everyone deserved one. She had a lovely smile and curls I would have killed for. I met her at my first <a href="http://www.romancewriters.co.nz/" style="color: darkgreen;" target="_blank">Romance Writers of New Zealand(RWNZ)</a>, Auckland Branch meeting and was impressed with how friendly and open she was. During the coffee break she introduced herself to me and mentioned she lived just around the coast in Clevedon and maybe we could carpool for meetings from time to time. I remember being slightly overawed that someone who was everything I was dreaming of being (a successful, published author)would be happy to carpool with me.<br />
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In late March Sandra very graciously agreed to be interviewed for my websites and that is how one chilly autumn afternoon found us together at my dining room table, sipping hot drinks and talking about romance.<br />
At the time, I was, for a wide variety of reasons, struggling with the idea of writing romance, so I asked Sandra her thoughts on why people are ambivalent toward the genre. She gave her amazing curls a shake and took time to think a moment before replying.<br />
“You know, I think that ambivalence has always been there and some of it is because romance is usually written by women for women and even today that creates issues I suppose. It’s important to remember to enjoy the spectrum of genres and styles available. One doesn’t have to spoil you for others. I enjoy gourmet cooking for example but I still love pizza. It’s not one or the other.”<br />
She paused a moment and then added “personally I just like a good book.<br />
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Sandra, who sold her first book in 2008, didn’t set out to be an author, let alone one who was a USA Today bestseller. In fact, she had a successful career in marketing before taking up writing and was home on maternity leave when boredom drover her to enrol in a writing course.<br />
“When I started writing, this light bulb went off and I thought ‘wow, this is it’,” Sandra told me. “But I still wrote for ten years before selling a manuscript.”<br />
Sandra, as most members of RWNZ know, was in Reno for a Romance Writers of America conference when she won a critique session with <a href="http://www.tessaradley.com/" style="color: darkgreen;" target="_blank">Tessa Radley</a>’s editor. That meeting was the turning point.<br />
“I was rooming with Tessa and it was very cool to be in a group of writers who understood the joy I felt. “<br />
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The meeting pushed Sandra to take her writing seriously and she soon had a routine of writing every weekday, while her children were at school. It was important to her she said, to show her children you could have a dream and that it wouldn’t always be easy but that you could achieve it all the same.<br />
She admitted, with something of an embarrassed grin, that she usually didn’t plan her work out ahead of time.<br />
“I’m absolutely a pantser,” she said. “Sometimes I have an idea but that’s about all. The details come when my fingers are on the keyboard.”<br />
Once the first book had been sold, she said she simply rolled up her sleeves and “got on with the next one”.<br />
At times, Sandra did write in other genres but felt she wasn’t as good at it, preferring to stay with romance.<br />
“I love a happy ending; I think they’re good for us. I like people falling in love. “<br />
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Sandra didn’t mind the solitary nature of writing but admitted she did struggle with the discipline required for meeting her 1,200 word a day target. To help avoid the distraction of email, Twitter, Facebook and the likes, Sandra kept one computer internet free and did most of her writing there. When she forayed online, she usually managed to raise a smile.<br />
“You would think, being a writer, that I could find a pen somewhere in my house,” she once tweeted.<br />
As we began to wind up the interview I asked Sandra what advice she had for new or unpublished writers.<br />
“Take what you want from conferences and meetings and course but always listen to everything. Be careful about who you give your work to, to read. Then write, write, write – don’t write-edit – just get it down on paper. You can come back and fix it up later.”<br />
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Sandra died on August 21, 2011 after being taken suddenly ill at the RWNZ conference. I was devastated because although we had met again at my house about six weeks after the interview, we didn’t know each other well enough to be friends yet. I would like to think that perhaps one day we would have become so because on that cold autumn day as I watched Sandra drive away, I knew one thing.<br />
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I wanted to be just like her.<br />
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Photo of Sandra Hyatt: <span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #e8e7e5; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"> Janice Van Huenen Photography</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Melanie McMinn is the inspirational woman behind a popular and spirited blog by the name of <a href="http://frugalkiwi.co.nz/">The Frugal Kiwi </a>– a 2011 finalist in the highly acclaimed Bloggie Awards and runner up in ApartmentTherapy Best Green Home Blog Homie Awards.</span><br />
<a href="http://realwomenreallives.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/frugal-kiwi-300x71.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img alt="" border="0" class="aligncenter" data-mce-src="http://realwomenreallives.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/frugal-kiwi-300x71.png" height="71" src="http://realwomenreallives.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/frugal-kiwi-300x71.png" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; display: block;" title="frugal kiwi" width="300" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“In the interest of disclosure,” Melanie says with a grin, “I should admit, I’m not really a kiwi. I was born in Sevierville, Tennessee, USA but I love New Zealand.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Melanie launched the blog in 2009, when, at the age of 36, her life was turned upside down by what the doctors at the time believed had been a stroke. It took 20 months for specialists to discover that in fact Melanie was suffering from an extended duration, extremely severe migraine.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I’m happy that I haven’t had a stroke. Thrilled, in fact. My long term prognosis is much better than if I’d truly had a stroke at age 36,” Melanie says.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Since the onset of the migraine Melanie’s natural tendency to frugality has blossomed into a full-fledged necessity and from there The Frugal Kiwi was born.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I thought I’d share a tip or two to others who are frugal by nature or necessity and love living the green life.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Melanie grew up in the southern states of America, the eldest child of simple, hard working parents. Her father, a preacher, worked in the family business, a holiday park, and her mother was a stay at home mum.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“My mother, who suffers from various thus-far undiagnosable neurological disorders, was a stay at home mum, lover of books and quilter of beautiful things and still is.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The family moved all around the South and Melanie changed schools often, learning to enjoy her own company and developing a love of reading.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Later, whilst completing a Master’s degree in Audiology Melanie’s eleven year marriage ended.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“ I struggled as best I could through the rest of my training as an audiologist and worked for a while in Arizona. Feeling I needed a break from life as I knew it, I sought out a job in New Zealand. I landed a position at Auckland District Health Board and moved to New Zealand.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Still, moving half way around the world was not enough for Melanie and before long she left audiology and launched a career in freelance writing.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“ I wrote a couple of magazine pieces, but mostly worked a corporate freelancer. Before I could get fully established as a freelancer, the migraine hit.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Unable to work, wanting to contribute to the household as best she could and needing a distraction from the excruciating pain, Melanie designed the Frugal Kiwi site and started blogging. In the beginning she posted recipes but before long her love of adventure kicked in and she embarked on more adventurous projects like soap and felt making, bee keeping, and a variety of other activities.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Since then it has been a challenge to keep the mix on the blog balanced.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“It is easy to go off on a tangent and write about one subject, chickens or bees or felting for a month, but not all of my readers are that interested in any one of my projects. Making sure I keep a mix of posts that will engage the majority of my readers is a priority and a challenge for me.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Designing, writing and managing a blog can be a challenge for most people - but Melanie has her constant companion, The Migraine, to battle with as well. She says her posting can sometimes be erratic and there are times when the pain is bad that she worries about her content. The blogs numerous fans, however don’t seem to share her concerns.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“ I went through a period of four months earlier this year where I was barely conscious-a time I call living in ZombieLand. I did my best during that time to create engaging content, but only my readers can say how successful I was. It did amuse me no end to have several comments from reader during my time in ZombieLand saying how energetic I was, so I must have been faking it pretty well at times.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Although popular, the Frugal Kiwi doesn’t bring in a huge income, although it does bring in potential customers for Melanie’s Felted Kiwi product. But money isn’t the point of the exercise. Melanie blogs because she loves it. When asked what she would do if handed a blank cheque, she laughs.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Can I have the blank cheque now? In any case, I would still blog as I do now. I love knowing things. I love learning things. I like knowing how to do things and how things work. I'm not ONLY frugal and green because I have to be. I like my life the way it is. Passing that knowledge on in a way that people enjoy satisfies a pedagogical part of my soul.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Melanie is not just adventurous in mind - before the arrival of the migraine, Melanie had another blog called Intrepid101,about her adventures as a curvy lady: skydiving, kayaking, rock climbing, riding in stunt planes, to name a few. Melanies say too many women think, "I'll do that when I've lost a few pounds" and then life passes them by while they wait to get thinner.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"I wasn't waiting and boy am I glad now I didn't. Doing those sorts of things have been off the cards for me lately, but will hopefully be back on again in the coming months as things improve for me healthwise."</span><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-30761213219462037832011-09-19T19:23:00.000-07:002011-09-19T19:23:30.218-07:00Honoring with her song: Yulia<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"></span><br />
<a data-mce-href="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Yulia-for-web.jpg" href="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Yulia-for-web.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-795" data-mce-src="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Yulia-for-web-235x300.jpg" height="200" src="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Yulia-for-web-235x300.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; float: left;" title="Yulia for web" width="156" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When singer Yulia was younger she would visit her grandmother in the suburbs of Moscow and together they would sing.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“My grandmother dreamed of being an opera singer, “Yulia told Underground Mainstream.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“She even had some vocal training – but family and children came first.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In her grandmother’s kitchen, Yulia learned Russian folk songs and listened to Caruso on her grandmother’s record player.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“My grandmother loved opera.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A decade and several thousand miles later, Yulia – who now calls New Zealand home – is living her grandmother’s dream.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2010 was a busy year for the Russian born singer. She won the <i>Grand Prix </i>in the<i> European Song Competition</i> in Riga, Latvia and the national award for <i>Best Nationwide Entertainment</i> in the <i>Corporate Events Guide 2010 People's Choice Awards</i> while in the United Kingdom she was also an<i> International Classical Crossover Album of the Year</i> finalist.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The awards are the result of a combination of talent, passion, and good old fashioned hard work from the singer. In 2009 Yulia spent year training with classical Russian and Italian singing teacher Valeriy Maksymov.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“It was a year of total immersion in classical singing. I had to travel quite a distance several times a week to work with him.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">During the same period Yulia auditioned, and was accepted into Southern Opera and although she later declined the role, she received valuable guidance from opera historian and former <a data-mce-href="http://www.opera.net.nz/" href="http://www.opera.net.nz/" target="_blank">NZ Opera</a> patron Jeremy Commons.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“He felt I needed to cultivate my own voice, so I took on board everything they both told me and I train every day of the week. This is my life and this is as much a job as being a Doctor is.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yulia sees singing as an extension of herself and when she connects with a piece of music – whether be it be something she has written or a piece from another composer – she knows she can ‘really deliver’.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 19px;">While in London in November 2010, Yulia ‘delivered’ for producer <a data-mce-href="http://www.craigleon.com/" href="http://www.craigleon.com/" target="_blank">Craig Leon</a>. Leon, who has worked with a variety of artists including Blondie, The Bangles, The Ramones, and the late Pavarotti, heard Yulia’s music online and requested a meeting.</span><div>
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 19px;">“It’s exciting to be working with him. One of my dreams is to create a legend with my music and this is part of that.”</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For a long time, Yulia says, she struggled with her identity. She grew up in poverty and it is a normal human reaction to want to replace the hardship associated with that history with ease and abundance. What is not quite so usual is that wealth in and of itself is not what drives Yulia.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“To achieve artistic greatness mean I could use that profile, that resource to help others achieve their greatness. I want this so I can share it with others.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The words are far from empty; Yulia has already raised over a million dollars for New Zealand charities and would like to set up her own charitable organisation to educate, empower, assist and inspire others – with a special focus on orphans.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“My grandmother was given up for adoption during the war so orphans are close to my heart.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">With so much ahead of her and so much to focus on Yulia is philosophical about how to achieve her goals.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“In music, things take time. Concentrating on what is in front of me right now is my focus. Everything will happen one step at a time.”</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">With her eye fixed firmly on her destination, Yulia’s steps are well and truly on the right path.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><strong><em>©2010 Angelique Jurd – All Rights Reserved.</em></strong></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-44314386925691046552011-09-19T19:17:00.000-07:002011-09-19T19:17:08.000-07:00Marketing with passion: Lea Worth<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"></span><br />
<a data-mce-href="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/new-lea-pic.gif" href="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/new-lea-pic.gif" style="clear: right; float: right; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-790" data-mce-src="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/new-lea-pic-300x291.gif" height="194" src="http://undergroundmainstream.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/new-lea-pic-300x291.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; float: left;" title="new-lea-pic" width="200" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lea Worth came to New Zealand, from Australia, on what was supposed to be a working holiday and fell in love. With both New Zealand and the man she married – and 36 years later she is still here.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“We have three children two of whom work in our jewellery manufacturing business with my husband,” Lea tells me with a smile. “Our youngest daughter is at the Broadcasting College in Christchurch. After 30 years John and I are empty nesters.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lea was working in the St Lukes shopping centre management office, assisting with marketing following the first major redevelopment of the centre, when in 1994 she was appointed acting marketing manager. From there she was promoted to marketing manager of Glenfield Mall, at the time in the process of gaining resource consent for major redevelopment.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In 1997 when Westfield took over the management of St Lukes Group Lea was again promoted.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I was made National Events Marketing Manager and was running national promotions across the ten centres in the portfolio.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Newmarket Business Association(NBA) approached Lea in 2006 and asked her to become Newmarket marketing manager giving her the opportunity to work with (now councillor) Cameron Brewer and A-lister Di Goldsworthy.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“When I took over the role, Newmarket had no marketing strategy and no distinct brand position. Four years on Newmarket is now known the length of the country as ‘The Fashion Capital of New Zealand’ - a title I came up with as part of a complete marketing strategy to underpin Newmarket as our premier shopping centre.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">During her time with the Association, Lea launched the Newmarket Young Designer award. During the first two years of the award over $300,000 in public relations was generated for NBA members and sponsors and attracted young designers from throughout the country. Winners were flown to New York and worked back stage at kiwi designer Karen Walker's New York fashion show.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“They also received a scholarship to Whitecliffe College of Arts and Design and an internship working alongside New Zealand designer Vicki Taylor.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 19px;">“Looking back I can proudly say Newmarket benefited from the strong branding and events I</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Implemented, so now I’m looking for projects in event marketing with a focus on fashion and retail. I’m a confident, professional and proactive person and have the ability to solve problems and use my initiative to meet challenging situations so I’m really looking for something to sink my teeth into.”</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><strong><em>©2010 Angelique Jurd – All Rights Reserved.</em></strong></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-16271210186538927022011-09-19T19:10:00.000-07:002011-09-19T19:10:34.700-07:00Young and determined: Rachel Rayner<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"></span><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdIwD7EvtwFQ-i4Et60WAG6J7W1bM4KithkqDk31NKdSZBzZQ6lxLdn-_Hnxqcskiovri_poBvjWXtE-QUJm9WhqwDAwI_3A0PqWpMmpypSIokVcnPH_irunB5VHo6vrqPJ8cnS25vad3Y/s1600/ProfilePic.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdIwD7EvtwFQ-i4Et60WAG6J7W1bM4KithkqDk31NKdSZBzZQ6lxLdn-_Hnxqcskiovri_poBvjWXtE-QUJm9WhqwDAwI_3A0PqWpMmpypSIokVcnPH_irunB5VHo6vrqPJ8cnS25vad3Y/s200/ProfilePic.JPG" width="166" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Rachel Rayner is a young woman with conviction. The chair of the East Coast Bays Labour Electorate Committee is, at just 24, one of the youngest people in the country to hold the post.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When I met with Rachel she had just taken over the role and things had been quiet so far – she had only run one or two meetings to date – but being an election year things will soon be getting busier.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I took the role on for two reasons,” Rachel says. “ For a start, it’s something I believe in – I simply believe we cn do better tha the other guys. Secondly, it’s fantastic real world experience nobody else is offering.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The primary role of an electorate committee is to support candidates standing for election – in this case Vivienne Goldsmith – and Rachel is pouring her heart in to getting ‘her’ candidate up the list and into parliament.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“The first thing I organised was a clothing swap – we really needed to do a fundraiser and it seemed like a good way to get things started.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Part of the attraction, Rachel says, was a clothing swap was a good way to attract people who were not Labour party members along.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Held late last year, Sunnynook Primary School Hall provided an easily found location for the event and social networking site, Twitter soon proved to be a formidable marketing platform.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“We had more people from Twitter than from anywhere by far,” Rachel says with a grin.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ten dollars cash and two items of clothing secured entry to the swap and three chits that could be swapped for three new items of clothing.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Neatly folded and sorted piles of clothes lined the hall and dressing rooms were set up at one end, as was a café.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I was really pleased to see people didn’t just come in, find something and leave. They stayed, had coffee and a good look around. Most people stayed around an hour – and everyone took at least two articles of clothing away with them. It was fantastic.”<br /></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Although the event raised several hundred dollars, its real value lay in raising the profile of both Ms Goldsmith and the committee.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“It was the wrong time of the year I think for a fundraiser so it wasn’t the most profitable but it was so good in terms of profile. We had lots of non-members there and it was the easiest fundraiser I’ve ever done. Everyone just jumped in and helped. We did have clothes left over – we kept the best for the next event in March and donated the rest to the Child Cancer Foundation.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Rachel has had plenty to keep her busy even before the election – which is exactly how Rachel likes it.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I get asked if I would like to stand but not at this stage –you know there are not a lot of young members and we’re trying to change that so I feel I can do so much to help at this level, I’m happy doing that.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; line-height: 19px;"><strong><em><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: xx-small;">©2010 Angelique Jurd – All Rights Reserved.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"> </span></em></strong></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-61901474157054880152011-09-19T18:58:00.000-07:002011-09-19T19:12:48.963-07:00Picking her priorities: Susan Wood<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While discussing “hooks” at a non-fiction writing workshop led by Graham Reed, he advised us to pay attention to “what you remember the most. What you notice is what other people will notice”.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The thing I noticed about Susan Wood was how very normal she was – and by normal I don’t mean ordinary.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ordinary is hardly the word for a successful journalist whose courage is almost as famous as her career.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As well as taking TVNZ to employment court (she won) she quit as general manager for the Takapuna Beach Business Association after only a week in the role because insufficient funding would not allow her to take the village as far as she believed it could go.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Not content with an impressive resume that showed her working alongside Paul Holmes and presenting more than one successful prime-time show, Susan graduated with an MBA from Otago in 2001.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, I was relieved to discover a down-to-earth woman with a great sense of humour who is more interested in her family-Susan has two sons -and friends than in being a celebrity. What's more, one who makes a really good cup of tea.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I did the MBA to show I have a brain,” she explains as she pours the tea.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Even with an MBA and leveraging her extensive media knowledge, it took Susan longer than she anticipated to find her niche once she moved away from mainstream media.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Because I have had such a public profile, there is a perception around that profile and around what I used to do that is, in fact, incorrect.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“People were making assumptions about what I could do, or would be prepared to do, that just weren’t true.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The experience gave Susan time to gather herself and decide what was important to her, what she wanted to do and who she wanted to work with.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“You know, if I can’t look someone in the eye I can’t be bothered working with them.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I’m not going to validate someone else just for a pay cheque.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The result is Wood Communications and a group of carefully selected clients, many of whom which are not-for-profit groups.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">More than just public relations, Wood Communications offers writing, video, communications and anything else its clients need.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“If it feels right I say yes and figure out how to do it. I’ve had to learn how to do a lot of new things,” she says with a laugh.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Women, according to Susan, are wired differently so they respond differently – but rather than worrying about it they should simply learn to work with those differences.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“You know there are some brilliant women’s networks out there. We have to look after each other as much as we can.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s important, she believes to encourage, the next generation of women and share experience and knowledge with them as much as possible.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I want to see good people who work hard do well.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The greatest thing about her new lifestyle is the flexibility it affords. The days of having to be at studios at four for make-up and worrying about missing cues behind her, Susan is free to set her own work schedule and time.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I can march to the beat of my own drum,” she says with a grin.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I'm not really a morning person but I do get my best ideas in the shower. I’m an evening worker though. I feel like I’m getting my niche sorted, that I’m on the right path – I want to continue with that, continuing to get the balance.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Balance is the key for Susan who is a devoted mum of two boys in their late teens. Being present and sharing their lives is a high priority for her as is being there for her friends.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“If people want you near when they’ve got issues it’s something really special. I think that’s pretty cool.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The keys to success for Susan are simple.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Be true to yourself in every way, she says, and treat others in a way you’d like to be treated. She also believes it’s important you appreciate what you have and what you have achieved as you go.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">She settles her cup down and stands.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Oh can I add one more? Make sure there is enough love in your life – that’s what matters."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Christine Rankin has long been someone I find inspirational. Back in 2008 for the release of her book <em>Light the Flame</em> (Random House, NZ) she very kindly agreed to an interview with me for business community newspaper <em>Business to Business:</em></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“The experience nearly destroyed me and sometimes I wished I could discreetly disappear to live in isolation. But I chose not to vanish, because I am driven by a desire to make a difference in the lives of others, especially those who experience the disadvantages and vulnerability similar to my own early years.” Christine writes in the opening pages of her book, speaking of her dismissal from public service.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But if you are looking for bitterness – you need to look elsewhere. For in her book <em>Light the Flame</em>, Christine’s account of her life – including the now famous battle with her superiors – is frank and at times brutal, but bitter it is not.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I think it was a story that needed to be told,” Christine tells me during a recent interview. “But when I started to do it, it was too raw. So I left it for a while, until my son said, “you really need to write that book.” Then the question became do I want to? I’m glad I did.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">With son Matt, Christine runs a consultancy and mentorship business called The Rankin Group as well as a media training business Media Wranglers. In her spare time – if such a thing exists for her – Christine is also chief executive of charitable trust “For the Sake of the Children”.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Matt and I are passionate about what we do. We teach people about transformational leadership. It can be scarey for people to realise that if you want to get the most out of people and business, you have to give of yourself.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">She has also taken on politics again, this time on a regional scale.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I don’t love politics – I probably fit in local body politics but not really regional. But I am passionate and I have a lot of integrity. Besides, we have to have New Zealanders who challenge the status quo. I want to say what I need to say when I want to say it.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">At nearly six foot tall, Christine is unlikely to ever blend into the scenery but it is more than her height – and her now infamous earrings – that make her stand out from the crowd. Straightforward and open, Christine is anything but run of the mill in her approach to everything.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The memory brings a laugh – and there is a tinge of sadness when she continues.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I’ve experienced the best of our culture and the worst of our culture. Lots of people want to be famous but not many would want to go through what I went through. Let’s hope nobody has to again.” There is a momentary pause before she turns to the current state of leadership in New Zealand – and she admits she is desperate for a change of regime.</span></div>
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<b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: xx-small;">Originally published in Business to Business, October 2008. Reprinted with permission.</span></i></b>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-64391043267676381872011-09-19T18:46:00.000-07:002011-09-19T19:11:48.985-07:00Leading with integrity: Hannah Samuel<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="http://hannahsamuel.com/">Hannah Samuel</a>l wanted to be an altar girl.<br />“My older brother had been an altar-boy,” Hannah told me over hot chocolate, as we took refuge from a cold winter afternoon in a local cafe.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Gender discrimination at an early age did not dampen Hannah’s spirit at all – if anything it encouraged her to find out how people could authentically express themselves, personally and professionally, whilst also understanding they would be judged.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I realised from a very early age – probably around 6 or 7 – that reputation rules,” Hannah said.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I discovered everyone makes judgements about others whether or not those judgments may be fair or accurate. As I moved through school and into my adult life it became really clear how the school we went to, the suburb we lived in, the company we kept, the qualifications we gained and the career we chose, for example, opened doors or slammed them shut. ”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It can be slightly unnerving to meet someone who is considered a reputation expert. All the usual pre-meeting worries surrounding ‘how do I look?’, ‘what do they know about me?’ seem to take on a new importance. Even ‘how do I smell?’ - after all do you want a reputation champion going away from a meeting thinking “whoo – have they never heard of deodorant?”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So it is somewhat reassuring to meet the successful author and speaker and discover she is not only very nice - one of those people you like instantly - she doesn’t seem even remotely interested in your presentation. Or how you smell.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A successful career in business development in both the UK and New Zealand allowed Hannah to experience first-hand how many businesses attract high-value, loyal customers and clients by delivering on their promises and managing expectations. Conversely says Hannah, others make a ‘quick win’ but failed to have lasting success by failing to treat their teams, their customers and those around them with integrity.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“My focus on reputation branding came about as a result of bringing these experiences together. When we understand how reputation is formed, and how it influences virtually every decision that’s made, we can make informed choices and decisions about how to live our lives and run our businesses and it’s this that drives me.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Casting a ‘reputation lens’ over the lives and work of clients enables them to be become more informed about the choices they make, but Hannah is quick to point out this is not about telling people how to live their lives.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I’m not the morality police. It’s not my place to tell someone what they should, or shouldn’t do. What I can do, however, is give them information and tools to make their own choices and have a fair idea of what the consequences may be.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Encouraged as a child to become informed and express her opinion Hannah had forged a career as writer, speaker and consultant on the importance of reputation. Her books include the very successful Reputation Branding: How to grow your business without spending a cent and The Integrity Factor</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“‘Robust’ discussions around the dinner table in our house were a big part of growing up! As a young adult, because I was willing to express my opinion I was frequently asked to contribute to debates and speak on a topic. I also had roles as a trainer or facilitator and regularly wrote for business newspapers and magazines on issues around business development.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s easy to see how her path led her to being an in demand speaker and National President of the National Speakers Association of New Zealand (NSANZ).</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I’ve always enjoyed speaking in front of an audience and really engaging with people and found myself doing more of this, alongside more writing around reputation, trust and integrity specifically.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><em>Reputation Branding – How To Grow Your Business Without Spending A Cent</em> – came about as a result of audience members asking Hannah if she had written a book and where they could buy it.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“<em>The Integrity Factor: Why Reputation Rules In Business And Lif</em>e – which was co-authored with Ricky Nowak, came about as a result of Ricky and me deciding to collaborate on paper on the importance of integrity in our professional lives – specifically focusing on leaders and the responsibilities they have for their organisations and those around them.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hannah’s books are easy to read and echo her speaking style. She uses real-life examples and case-studies to remind us everything we do impacts on how others perceive us.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">People do business, and engage with, people and organisations they trust says Hannah which is why it is so important we develop and maintain, high-trust and high-value relationships. In doing so we are more likely to have doors open for us than slammed in our face.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“We can also sleep well at night knowing whatever we may be accused of, of challenged on, we will be able to explain our actions honestly. Acting with integrity is one of the best stress-relievers there is!”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hannah repeats that her job isn’t to dictate other people’s behaviour. Integrity she says firmly is about accepting personal responsibility for our actions and the consequences of the choices we make. It is about the alignment of every part of our being – what we say and do, how we choose to behave and act.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“As part of my work I’m blessed to be able to meet, and engage with, people from all walks of life which enriches my experience and understanding, and I enjoy educating and informing, through my speaking and writing, in an entertaining and memorable way.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s not unusual for people to give Hannah feedback via email, phone or via Twitter or Facebook, saying they are now thinking differently about the consequences of their actions in a more personally-responsible way and making informed choices in the way they are living their lives or running their business.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“It’s easy to judge, criticise, bleat, blame, moan and whinge. I’m tickled-pink when someone lets me know they’re choosing the arguably harder path of being objective, accepting, nurturing, supportive and responsible instead.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hannah doesn’t spend her entire working day examining reputations though. She is equally vigilant in the quest for fairness and equity – ensuring people are given a genuine opportunity and are not discriminated against, or disadvantaged.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It is also important, she says with a grin, to have fun.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This of course begs the question how does somebody who is so aware of other people’s perceptions and interpretation have fun. Hannah is not at all put off by the question .</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I love spending time with interesting people with wonderful life experiences of any age. I enjoy reading – mostly biographies and non-fiction, music (anything from Gorillaz to Pucini), dancing and skating. I also recharge by walking in the bush with my dogs or on the beach on a cold winter’s day, rugged up against the weather! One of these day’s I’ll become a proper gardener – I’m good at pulling out weeds – and I enjoy playing around with colours and fabrics quilting.”</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hannah credits a lot of her success to her parents who supported and encouraged her. She admired their work ethic and was inspired to work with integrity rather than ‘win at all costs’. Success was never defined in monetary terms, but in lifestyle terms and the ability to make choices with time, money and other resources.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“My husband, too, continues to encourage and inspire me with his generous spirit, wonderful sense of humour and honourable work-life ethic. One of my dreams is to take a vacation driving through the Swiss Alps in an open-top Aston Martin or MGB GT with Garry.”<strong></strong></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Although Hannah does not believe she has the right, or the obligation, to help people make good choices, she is always thrilled to learn she has been instrumental in helping someone to succeed.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“By accepting personal responsibility and making informed decisions each and every one of us has the opportunity to influence and shape our lives, and society in general, for our own benefit, and the benefit of those around us. “</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So what are the three vital ingredients in Hannah’s recipe for success?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The first is no surprise to learn - other people’s opinions count and it’s important to never forget that. However, Hannah adds, it’s more important, to feel good about, and be truly happy with, the life you are living.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“If you’re not, be honest with yourself about what changes may need to be made, and make them.”</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Modest self-appreciation is next on the list. It can boost your spirits, and help remind you of the unique qualities and gifts you bring to the world. Every so often remind yourself:</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’m loved and appreciated by …</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“If you can help people feel good about themselves, and also feel good about dealing with you, you’ll never be short of money or opportunities. “</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Download Hannah's fabulous free e-book <em>'Pocket Book Of Women's Wisdom Volume 1'</em>. Words of Support And Encouragement From Women For Women. Compiled in support of global charity ‘Dress For Success’, this ebook is a compilation of original thoughts, sayings and quotations from everyday New Zealand and Australian women willing to share with, and encourage, other women in an uplifting way. Ideal when you’d like a boost of inspiration and encouragement <a data-mce-href="http://www.hannahsamuel.com/#/books-cds/4525958631" href="http://www.hannahsamuel.com/#/books-cds/4525958631" target="_blank">here</a></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The <a href="http://www.gra.co.nz/">Gilligan Rowe and Associates (GRA) </a>partner has not one but two degrees, has created and successfully administers the Trust Planning department for GRA, successfully written, published and released her first book, and is working on her second .</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When asked why two degress – when most of us had enough trouble getting one – she looks somewhat bemused.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“So it seemed to me that having two hard core degrees behind me meant the deck was stacked in my favour and therefore my chances of failure were lessened.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“With accounting, I like seeing how numbers behave and what they mean. Numbers frequently tell a story all by themselves – a bit like words really.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Janet was working in an inner city accounting practice and looking for a new challenge when she spotted an advertisement from GRA calling for applications for a manager’s role. She knew immediately they needed more than they were asking and took her tenacity into the role.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Within three months she was asked to become a partner.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“From the moment I commenced working with GRA I developed the role I held.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I was however very fortunate to have two Partners behind me who gave me this licence and who had the confidence in me to get the job done.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Over the years Janet has seen how people can get caught in the “litigation net” and this has fostered a passion for Trust work.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“They may for instance not have caused another person to lose money or suffer damage but because they were involved in some way, they are sued.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“When this occurs, those people can lose everything because they don’t have insurance to cover the event.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“When they lose everything, they end up with no assets, huge debts and a complete loss of self esteem and confidence.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;">In other words – true to her nature – Janet sees having a Trust as having another card in your deck. </span><a href="http://www.familytrusts.co.nz/" style="line-height: 19px;">Family Trusts 101</a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"> writtten, published and released by Janet is also part of that deck. Although she primarily wrote the book to help demystify Trusts and help people administer them and fulfill their Trustee duties in accordance with the law – she also wanted to be sure she didn’t become “one of those advisers who create a Trust for a client, take their money and then turn their back on them”.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I got mad at the professional advisors out there who are very good at creating Trusts for clients but absolutely hopeless at telling their clients how they should run their Trusts.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“You see when clients fail to administer their Trusts, it’s an easy task to attack their Trusts.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Self publishing was both a creative and a business decision. Two well known publishers wanted to publish the book which involved buying the copyright; as is the norm in book publishing, the publishing house would then have chosen the type font, paper type, and layout of the book.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I didn’t want a publisher to have this type of control so I chose to self publish.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“That said, I would never have been able to get this book out into the public domain without the wonderful support I’ve had.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Since the launch of the book, Janet has been inundated with orders and is viewing the entire experience with a mix of amusement, relief and excitement.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Relief that the tension to get it to market is over and excited to see something I’ve done in other peoples’ hands.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Whether she is talking about law, accounting, or writing it soon becomes clear there are three vital ingredients to Janet’s success. The first and the most obvious is passion - Janet likes to be deeply involved in whatever she is doing and says she never wants to live a life without passion in it.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Passion for what ever I am involved in drives me to do the very best I can.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It is however balanced she says with an equal dose of fear – of failure.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Fear of failing on the other hand drives me to run harder and faster at whatever task is put in front of me.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Passion and fear are two vital ingredients that work well for me but they aren’t without their costs.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The third is helping others.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">At a large funeral attended by several hundred people she was struck by the number of speeches that spoke not of the deceased’s successes and achievements but of their kindness in words, deeds and actions.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“I decided there and then at that funeral that when I leave this world, I want people to think of me like that and so I have set out to help others through the work I do.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“That’s why practising the principle “paying it forward” is just so important to me personally.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Paying it forward includes helping women take personal responsibility for the life they want. This includes self responsibility for designing their physical, spiritual and financial life.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“This means getting some education (reading, asking questions) and putting in place a plan which contains goals and strategy for achieving the life you desire,” Janet says after some thought.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“It also means reviewing the plan every now and again and dealing with any issues that come up.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">To do this Janet recommends gathering brilliant advisors around you and not becoming a a person who knows the cost of everything and the value of nothing.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“Good advisors charge good money but they will steer you in the right direction. Also ensure you have great friends around you and don’t neglect them. Have people who will encourage you, give you a bed for the night, who will help, support and motivate you. At the same time, keep your eyes and ears open. Know who is not in your camp and not on your side. But don’t let what you hear and see, affect what’s in your heart. Just do what’s in your plan, in a well thought out, respectful manner and prove those who are against you wrong.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Her last piece advice could come straight from <i>Sex and the City's </i> Carrie and has a ring of sincerity that proves a lot of thought and more than a few tears have helped formulate it.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">“You should buy more shoes, watch more movies, fall in love, eat more of your favourite foods, travel, laugh more, hang out with friends … work out and then try to do what makes you feel happy and try to do it on a regular basis. Sometimes we have to programme time in our lives to do the things that make us feel happy and content.”</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While she works on adding another card to her deck, Janet is taking her own advice and taking some well earned rest and relaxation – with just a smidgeon of shoe shopping thrown in for good measure.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><strong><em>©2010 Angelique Jurd – All Rights Reserved. </em></strong></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-47269490536604754642011-09-19T18:21:00.000-07:002011-09-19T19:10:58.942-07:00Learning to trust: Sonia Choquette<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"></span><br />
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Internationally acclaimed spiritual teacher, intuitive guide and author <a href="http://www.soniachoquette.com/">Sonia Choquette</a> laughs when I ask her how old she was when she realised she had an ability to do something different and special.<br />
“I grew up in a house where the sixth sense was valued as the most important of all the senses. It wasn’t until I went to grammar school that I realised that what I considered natural and comfortable was not shared by other people .”<br />
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Speaking from Chicago, six weeks before she was due in New Zealand for her <i><a href="http://www.soniachoquette.com/">Traveling at the Speed of Love </a></i>workshop in Taupo, Sonia has a strong, sincere voice full of confidence as she explains her work to me.<br />
“I went to a Catholic school where they taught about angels while I was actually engaging with them.”<br />
So Sonia, who energetically activates the highest vibration to free the authentic Spirit in everyone she meets, began teaching other people how to identify and use their sixth sense when she was just 16.<br />
“I don’t know any other way of being so it just seemed natural.”<br />
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From there Sonia went on to study at the University of Denver and the Sorbonne in Paris, before pursuing a spiritual education at the American Institute of Holistic Theology where she gained a BA, MS and PhD in Metaphysics.<br />
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While writing several bestselling books, Sonia began helping to release people from the restriction and fear of the ego while guiding them to joy, wholeness, and personal empowerment in every area of their life.<br />
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Along the way she has been a personal intuitive advisor to New Age leaders like Louise Hay, Julia Cameron, Caroline Myss, Dr. Wayne Dyer, pop icon Billy Corgan of the Smashing Pumpkins rock band, and professional consultant to international business leaders such as Charlotte Beers, Fortune 500 Company CEO.<br />
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According to Sonia we live in a quantum field of energy but our ego minds filter that subtle connection with our intuition out – but once this is reactivated we can make more informed decisions.<br />
“Intuition is the higher octave of our senses,” Sonia said.<br />
“Women tend to be more fluent as they are more comfortable expressing their feelings than men but they are not inherently more intuitively capable.<br />
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Studies have shown that following our intuition is a skill of leaders, with CEO’s and entrepreneurs commonly citing ‘following their gut feeling’ as a reason for their success.<br />
“We are all born with a clear connection to our intuition.<br />
“We have been indoctrinated to abandon and hand ourselves over to the external patriarchal authority figures of our society but those figures are failing us left and right.<br />
“The good news though is that paradigm is ending and the reactivation of our inner guidance system is not that difficult once you are shown the way.”<br />
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Fear, stubborn habit and dormant imagination are all blocks to acknowledging our intuition says Sonia and she acknowledges that the unknown is often frightening.<br />
“Don’t confuse fear with danger though,” she continued.<br />
“It’s fun and exciting to activate your mind.<br />
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<strong><em>©2010 Angelique Jurd - All Rights Reserved. </em></strong>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-797427544465641720.post-6257060940032536712011-09-19T18:11:00.000-07:002011-09-19T19:10:46.286-07:00The power of poetry: Kim Rosen<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"></span><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdSXKfZdhkquIHcm07ZpZPCR5YwcbVUbqbN47oIAXAC4z69vhWwo5iXT4n14psKWqKVYY5875408t41GIL6LDpCMUjjcgQnbB12-MmDh54CpJ6LnDwILXH9Lh4J9V7tw-prtZWHGHV0okT/s1600/kim+rosen.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="233" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdSXKfZdhkquIHcm07ZpZPCR5YwcbVUbqbN47oIAXAC4z69vhWwo5iXT4n14psKWqKVYY5875408t41GIL6LDpCMUjjcgQnbB12-MmDh54CpJ6LnDwILXH9Lh4J9V7tw-prtZWHGHV0okT/s320/kim+rosen.jpg" width="320" /></a>There is, in poetry, a power to touch and transform our lives; a power so subtle it is almost magic. Author, spiritual teacher and, yes, poet, <a href="http://kimrosen.net/">Kim Rosen</a> spoke to me about how she uses the art form to help others transform their own lives.<br />
“That’s wonderful,” Kim laughed upon hearing how much I enjoyed her recently released <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Saved-Poem-Transformative-Power-Words/dp/1401921469">Saved by a Poem: The Transformative Power of Words (Hay House, 2009)</a>. In fact by page two I was in tears and have been the prowl for poems on a daily basis ever since. “I love hearing how the book has touched people. It is so rewarding.<br />
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Armed with a B.A. from the prestigious Yale University and an M.F.A. in poetry from Sarah Lawrence College, Kim has successfully led trainings, workshops and retreats the world over for more than 25 years. Combining her devotion to poetry with her background as a spiritual teacher and therapist, she also gives "Poetry Concerts", often working with other poets, teachers, and musicians like cellist Jami Sieber.<br />
“I became a teacher of consciousness, an explorer of realms of spirituality and psychology – but none of these wisdoms I’d been immersed in could touch the place where I was broken beyond repair. You know: take four teaspoons of Rumi and call me in the morning.”<br />
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In<i> Saved by a Poem</i> Kim speaks of accidentally finding a cassette tape of David White speaking poems that brought breath and feeling to a place within her that felt untouchable. At that same time Kim was driving long distances back and forth to her parents who were struggling with their own health crises. She decided to put the driving time to good use and start memorising some of her favourite pieces.<br />
“I found myself not memorising the poems but learning them by heart and each time I said them I discovered something new – about the poem and about myself.”<br />
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She began recording poets reading their own work as well as that of other poets and putting it against the deeply soulful cello of Jami Sieber. Writing and recording Saved by a Poem became an integral part of her own journey to help people discover or rediscover the magic that is poetry in their own lives.<br />
“Poetry is one of the main flashlights I use to help people to open up to the possibilities of who they are.”<br />
While the book was with the copy editors, Kim found herself again being saved yet again by a poem. After investing her lifesavings, Kim discovered that like thousands of others, she had lost everything to Bernie Madoff. As she hung up the phone from hearing the news, the opening words of the poem "Kindness" by Naomi Shihab Nye began to play in her mind.<br />
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“Before you know what kindness really is</div>
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you must lose things.”</div>
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“You know, people think that all the people who lost money in those schemes were millionaires. I wasn’t – it was a small amount – but it was all I had. The poem just seized me - it really arrived from somewhere as if it had been an exam of my own teaching.”<br />
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Kim survived the Madoff loss and is not shy in admitting the role poetry played in helping her through that and other difficulties. She believes fervently that poetry is the only language that speaks to those vast shifts, wonders, and heartbreaks that happen and that speaking poems aloud helps navigate those very challenges.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Kindness</span></div>
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Before you know what kindness really is</div>
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you must lose things,</div>
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feel the future dissolve in a moment</div>
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like salt in a weakened broth.</div>
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What you held in your hand,</div>
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what you counted and carefully saved,</div>
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all this must go so you know</div>
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how desolate the landscape can be</div>
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between the regions of kindness.</div>
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How you ride and ride</div>
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thinking the bus will never stop,</div>
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the passengers eating maize and chicken</div>
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will stare out the window forever.</div>
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Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,</div>
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you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho</div>
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lies dead by the side of the road.</div>
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You must see how this could be you,</div>
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how he too was someone</div>
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who journeyed through the night with plans</div>
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and the simple breath that kept him alive.</div>
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Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,</div>
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you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.</div>
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You must wake up with sorrow.</div>
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You must speak to it till your voice</div>
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catches the thread of all sorrows</div>
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and you see the size of the cloth.</div>
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Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,</div>
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only kindness that ties your shoes</div>
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and sends you out into the day to mail letters and</div>
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purchase bread,</div>
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only kindness that raises its head</div>
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from the crowd of the world to say</div>
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it is I you have been looking for,</div>
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and then goes with you every where</div>
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like a shadow or a friend.</div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">From: Words Under the Words: Selected Poems (A Far Corner Book) (Paperback) by ~ Naomi Shihab Nye</span><br />
<strong><em><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">©2010 Angelique Jurd – All Rights Reserved. </span></em></strong>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0